Safety and rules
Two short lists: what has no place here, and what makes a first meeting safer.
What is not allowed
- Offering or asking for money in exchange for meeting, in any form
- Advertising a price, a service or an offer
- Writing a phone number, a link or another network's handle in the text of a profile or a listing — to share your number, use the “Show my number on my profile” setting in your account settings
- Posting nudity or a sexual photo
- Posting someone else's photo, or a photo of a minor
- Pretending to be someone else
- Harassing, threatening or insulting another member
An account that breaks these rules is suspended, then banned if it happens again or if the breach is serious.
Before a first date
- Keep first contact short before you meet, and share nothing beyond your number
- Pick a public place and a daytime hour for the first meeting
- Tell someone you trust where you're going and who with
- Arrange your own way home, without depending on the other person
- Never hand over banking details, however convincing the person is
- If something feels off, leave, then report it
Report and block
The Report button is on every profile and every listing. Blocking takes effect at once and the person is not told.
Write to usStrictly 18 and over. Any sign-up declaring less than 18 is refused.